Can anyone from the Retirement System assist me in drafting a QDRO?

No. The role of ERSRI in approving QDROs is simply to determine whether the QDRO satisfies the requirements of the retirement plan and relates solely to the technical requirements. ERSRI cannot give legal or actuarial advice with regard to the terms of the QDRO, the future value of the benefit, or tax consequences. You should seek assistance from a lawyer who is well versed in the area of domestic relations orders for legal advice.